Vern just doesn’t understand why he is unable to open the doggy door. Even though he walks up to it, nothing happens. Bee on the other hand, just has to approach the opening and the plastic sheet magically rises up long enough for her round body to enter.
At first, Vern got pretty agitated with it and tried to follow Bee through the opening. But once after his paw felt the weight of the door come down on it, he stayed away.
Why does it appear that doors open for certain people and remain closed for others? Why do certain people seem to have an easy time of reaching their goals while others struggle their entire lives?
If we look at it from an earthly standpoint, it can appear very unfair to us. Why would wealth come so easily for some and impossible for others? When we compare our circumstances with others, we can become jealous and angry with God.
Instead of looking towards the treasures of this world for our joy and peace, we should look to the author of life. Given that he created each of us to be unique individuals, shouldn’t we try and discover the doors he wants us to walk through?
Jesus stated in Matthew 7:7-8, “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.”
I am excited about the distinctive door that is just for me. The one that can be opened if I just seek.
In a week or so, the electronic device that Bee has will also be placed on Vern’s collar, so he will also be able to enter and exit the house at his leisure. Until then, Vern seems content to be taken up into our arms and carried in and out.
Maybe, the next time you can’t get through the door you so desperately want to enter, look around. You may just find that you are also being carried.
Carl. He has been removed once more.
First he was taken from his home where he resides as the king and taken to my
daughter’s home for the week we were on vacation. After spending less than two
days with her family, he was taken to doggy daycare to finish out his days
until our return.
luxury of cameras to give us a clear view of Carl’s actions, we witnessed his
removal from the play area after an altercation with another dog. We understood
the decision to send him back to his cage, but the thought of him being
secluded, hurt our hearts.
of hours we would turn the app on and seek out our little dog among the others
only to see void space where Carl would be. Void space can also be found in our
hearts where God should reside. Ecclesiastes
3:11 states that God has put eternity into our hearts. A space where nothing or
no one can fill.
strive to fill the space with things, power, or success. They will even try to
occupy it with a relationship or two. But no matter how much is crammed in, it
just won’t fit. Given a square won’t fit into a circle peg, anything outside of
the will of God, will not fit into the space that God has placed in our hearts.
hours later, we turned the app on once more to see Carl wondering around the
large room among the many dogs. The girl in the room seemed to have her eyes
set on him to make sure he behaved. Carl even seemed cautious as he wondered
around, making sure that he could stay in this space that once was void.
Carl and I
are very different when it comes to walks. Our little dog absolutely loves to
go out into the world and stroll down any path or road near our house. It doesn’t
matter how long he and my husband go or even what the temperature is. Just call Carl’s name and follow it with the
word, “walk” and we have a happy dog.
Now for me,
I will join Carl and my husband on a regular basis but it isn’t something I
really enjoy. I find walking a little on the boring side and choose other kinds
of exercise to accomplish my fitness goals. I particularly don’t like going when
I am not sure of the final destination.
This is why
when I think about the amount of walking the disciples of Jesus did, I become
amazed. There is one particular walk that blows my mind when I consider how far
they went without having a clue of the purpose of their journey.
It is a
story that is easily overlooked and most people don’t even consider the
circumstances surrounding the walk. It begins with Jesus being bombarded by a bunch
of religious leaders trying their best to prove that He is a farce. His disciples are beginning to wonder about
who Jesus is and so instead of trying to convince them with words, Jesus plans
a field trip.
start walking. I am sure the disciples were like most children we know and
asked Jesus countless times if they were close to their destination. Given how
I felt yesterday when walking four miles, I can’t imagine how they were feeling
after two days of trodding down a sandy path in the middle of nowhere.
days, they finally come to a small town near Sidon which is between fifty and
sixty miles from where they began. The disciples must have been a little cranky
as they waited for some incredible miracle to happen. But all they saw were
Gentiles that looked at them like they were scum off the bottom of their shoes.
anything worth coming this long way was probably causing these men to become
frustrated. To top it off, a woman’s persistent scream for Jesus could be heard
over the crowd without any signs of stopping. As the woman drew closer, the
disciples began to become extremely annoyed.
disciples were probably getting a little aggravated with Jesus. The woman
wouldn’t be quiet and Jesus acted like He didn’t hear her. Even after several
disciples tried to get her to be quiet, she continued. They then turned to
Jesus, but He didn’t seem in the least bit interested in addressing the woman.
woman makes her way to Jesus and kneels down in front of Him and calls out,
“Lord, Son of David, have mercy on me! My daughter is demon possessed and is
makes a statement that most people would have thought would be insulting. He
replied, “It is not right to take the children’s food and toss it to the dogs.”
responded, “Yes it is Lord. Even the dogs eat the crumbs that fall from the
looked down with incredible compassion and stated, “Woman, you have great
faith! Your request is granted.” (Matthew 25:25-28)
So why did
Jesus and his disciples walk so far into Gentile territory? There is no other miracles recorded here.
There is no interaction with important people or famous landmarks. Why would Jesus take at least ten days out of
his busy schedule to travel so far?
only one answer. To celebrate the faith of this one Gentile woman. This woman’s
declaration of who Jesus was demonstrated a stronger faith than any of his
disciples had shown since Jesus started his ministry. And Jesus wanted his
disciples to witness it first-hand.
future while I take my walks, I will spend some time contemplating the distance
these men covered. But what I will remember the most is how Jesus was willing
to take the time out of his busy schedule to seek out this woman of faith and
the miracle she received.
think Carl thinks a lot when he is going on his walks. But even so, I can learn
from his walking attitude and try and seek out the miracles that maybe right in
front of me.
Carl has been gone for almost two weeks. His life hasn’t interceded with ours except through pictures and Facetime. And even though we see him on the screen, he isn’t a part of our present.
and I have been on a cruise to Alaska while Carl has been rotating between
staying with our daughter and a pet resort. So it is easy to say that our
reality on the cruise ship is very different from our four legged friend.
We have been
experiencing average temperatures in the 70s while Carl has been enduring
scorching 90 degree temps. Our reality has been sailing across the ocean at
about 23 miles an hour looking out over beautiful snowcapped mountains while
Carl has been confined to the backyard with four little people to get along
words, our perception of life has been altered by our circumstances. Neither
Carl or my husband and I are living the truth of the life that we are typically
So how do we
know what truth is when our circumstances have been changed so
drastically? There is only one way. Only one person who spoke truth regardless of
the circumstances. John 14:6 states, “I am the way, and the truth and the
truth and the barometer in which to compare ourselves by, no matter our present
circumstances. So no matter where we are
on this planet, if we know Jesus through His words, we will have the life He
planned for us.
think that this life he is presently living will be his reality for the
remainder of his days. He doesn’t know when he will return or if he will. On
the other hand, as I write this, I know that tomorrow I will port in Seattle
and I will fly across the country to my home in North Carolina where life will
return to the reality that I am accustomed to. No matter where Carl and I find
ourselves, I know that truth isn’t found in my circumstances or even the place
where I reside.
that we were leaving. He just wasn’t
sure if he would be included in the departure or would be left. To improve his
odds of being allowed to join us, he placed his paws in front of him and took a
prayer stance. His body was shaking with fear as he waited patiently to see the
outcome of what would take place. Carl was living in the middle of fear and
How often do
we reside somewhere between the fear that wants to stop us from acting in
faith? Personally, I have to confess that I have allowed fear to dictate too
many of the decisions in my life.
one woman that stood firm in her faith and brushed the fear that was brewing in
her heart to dissipate. When she heard that David was coming to kill off all
her family because of her husband’s foolish behavior, she knew she had to act
So with fear
trying to convince her to stop, Abigail chose to act out of faith. Immediately,
she packed enough food to feed an army, and rode out into the desert to meet
the one who had the power to end her life.
Abigail saw David, she quickly got off her donkey and bowed down before David
with her face to the ground.”(1 Samuel 25:23)
humility, Abigail made her case and stopped the demise of her family. If she
had chosen the path of fear, the story would have ended very differently. But
because she elected to act, God took care of the situation and her family was
up coming with us and spent the day playing with other dogs in a pet resort. He
met new friends and enjoyed frolicking around with no cares. What could have
ended as a lonely day turned into a fun filled excursion.
clearly showing signs of insecurity. He wouldn’t come into the bedroom because
of his fear of his sister. After going out into the hall and literally pushing
him inside, it was clear our pooch needed support to enter.
and on his bed, he was shaking uncontrollably. Carl, who stands only a foot off
the ground, typically portrays himself as the size of a great dame on his walks
but now had shriveled into the body of a Chihuahua.
How can a
dog who one minute appears so confident be transformed into a pile of mush?
Before judging this little Frenchie, we should look in the mirror and ask
ourselves the same question.
We all have
sensitive spots in our personality that cause the wall of insecurity to keep us
from going forward. The question arises when we are face to face with the wall
and how we are going to get over it. Or in some cases, if we are even going to
attempt the climb.
Many of us
are forced to make the ascent over our personal insecurity when we are in
occupations that require it. Others, make the choice to fight through uncertainty
when an important relationship is on the line.
there are others that avoid facing their barricade or pretend it doesn’t exist.
King David was a perfect example of this. After his son Absalom was killed, the
king was paralyzed by his insecurity. Instead of leading his country, he became
absorbed with self-doubt and drew inward. The result of his actions had a
devastating effect on the country. Without a leader, all the people went back
aimlessly to their own tents.
Joab, his right hand man, had the confidence to speak sternly to the king. Then
and only then did King David take his position of authority and push through
his insecurity. Once he was seated on his throne, the people were willing to
come out of their own hiding places and give respect to the king. (2 Samuel 19)
understand how his insecurity impacts us. He doesn’t see the inconvenience of
being awakened by his howl and having to get up to move him through his
self-doubt. Many people who lack confidence don’t see how their actions hurt
the people around them. But just like David, it only takes a decision to take
the position that God has given us.
the future, Carl will climb over his personal wall of self-doubt and make his
way to his sleeping position that he has been assigned. And just like him, the
next time I come face to face with my own wall of insecurity, I will be willing
to make the climb upward and over.
been challenged that much in life. Every day, he has a similar routine that
begins with a walk, lunch, sleeping in the sun, dinner, and then finding a good
spot to spend the night. Every once in a while, his routine is broken up but
nothing to get his panties tied in a knot about.
Most of us
would initially say that we would love to have a life like Carl’s. Just
drifting from one fun thing to the next without giving much thought to anything
but our pleasure and basic needs. Initially, everyone says, “Sign me up!”
went to my second go cart race with my nine year old grandson. He has driven
five races and initially he did extremely well. Since he just started, he began
in a division that didn’t require much skill. He easily came in first or second
place without much effort.
But as most
of you who have played a sport or been involved in developing a skill, there
are different levels that change up the effort and perseverance needed in order
to be successful. So my grandson was now racing among boys his age that had
raced fifty races to his five. They had cars that had been fine tuned to the
race conditions and lots of people supporting them.
My son in
law and his good friend are both mechanics and raced when they were young and
are now getting back into the sport after being away for decades. So as you can
guess, winning wasn’t in the picture. But on the other hand, an unforeseen gift
grandson, and his best friend started the first race with high hopes. Everett
had made a mistake in qualifying and ended up at the end of the pack. He was
extremely upset but pushed through the emotions and went out determined to do
conditions were challenging to say the least. It was over 95 degrees and the
course was hard and slick which made it difficult to stay on the track when
making turns. After about the fifth lap, my attention was deferred from my
grandson to his friend. A car started spinning right in front of him and he had
no choice but to run right into him. From afar, it didn’t look good. And when
the ambulance pulled on the track, my heart started racing. All I could do was start praying.
other grandson and Everett’s friend’s brother running toward me, I pulled them
close to me and comforted them. And then something happened that touched my
heart more than any victory could ever. Eli, my five year old grandson took his
friend’s hand and said, “Let us pray for your brother.” And then he closed his
eyes and asked God to take care of his friend.
forever before finally, Everett’s friend was able to walk off the track on his
own. He was shaken up and had to be closely monitored for the rest of the time
we were there. The paramedic came over to our trailer and double checked on him,
but he was ultimately okay.
raced his last race without his friend. He got out there and did the best job
he could, spinning out several times, but just like the ready ever battery
bunny, Everett pulled back into the race and finished last.
But to me, Everett
and Eli finished first. First in character and integrity. First in reaching out
to God, when so many children would have become angry and self-absorbed. First
where it truly matters in life. In my mind, this is what Jesus meant in Matthew
20:16 “So the last will be first, and the first will be last.”
As for Carl,
I believe he has a great dog life. But as for me, I want to be more like my grandson,
who was willing to be put in a situation that challenged more than just his driving
skills, but also his character.
As we pulled
into the campground overlooking the lake, raindrops started spitting at us in
all directions. We quickly put up a canopy to keep dry. I tried to coax Carl to
come in from the rain but all he did was stare at me as if I was crazy. He just couldn’t understand that if he came in
under the cover, he wouldn’t get wet.
after a little prompting, Carl came in from the rain while we finished unpacking.
After some sniffing and marking his territory, he found a place to lie down and
get comfortable. All went well for a couple of minutes until his sister Bee got
in his space. Then Carl had to let Bee
know that he was the alpha dog and she needed to fall in line.
How often do
we need to fall in line with what God wants us to do? So often, we can cross
over the line and just like Bee, come head to head with an unpleasant
experience. Many times, we are caught off guard and don’t even realize what we
have done, or how to rectify the situation.
In Judges 4,
Barak, the main military leader, was given a specific command by God. He was told
to take 10,000 men and go fight the enemy. But he was afraid, and wouldn’t do
it unless Deborah, the designated judge of the time, would go with him.
refused, Barak didn’t receive the blessing that God had intended for him. Instead
of giving him recognition for leading his men into battle, a woman took the
glory for the win. History records that Jael killed Sisera, the enemy’s military
leader, which gave the Israelites the victory.
How often do
we miss out on the goodness, God has in store for us? All we need to do is
simply obey in the little battles of life. God knows that if we can win the
small skirmishes, we are more apt to go forth into the big clashes that will
come our way.
Carl won the
confrontation that he had with Bee. He walked away feeling strong and in
charge. Bee on the other hand, didn’t feel totally defeated, and will probably
not back down the next time the two act like bullies.
Carl and Bee’s Frenchie scuffles serve as a good reminder that I need be
attentive to the simple acts of obedience that God sends my way. If only I
could teach the two of them to obey me..
ever had a deep seated passion one day that took over all the other interests
in your life? For the last couple of
years, writing about the antics of Carl has been a joy that I have loved to
share with all of my cyberspace friends. But recently, a desire to go a little
deeper into the lives of women in the Bible has pushed my thoughts in a
As I have
studied these women, I have been consumed with so many complex emotions. At
first, when I hadn’t made their acquaintances, I thought they would be boring
and old fashion. But what I have found instead, are women just like us, with
the same desires and shortfalls.
For all you
men that are out there, I hope you will also want to discover more about the
women that are the center of your life. As for the pet lovers, I will continue to
write about my four legged friend.
couple of minutes ago, Carl was seen leading my husband down the road to who
knows where. With his head held high and tailless tail wagging, he could be
seen walking the neighborhood. I am sure there is an adventure in the making.
We are all
unique and ever changing. That is what is wonderful about life. We don’t have to get stuck in what our
passions were. Just as we don’t have to get wedged in our yesterdays.
steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end; they
are new every morning; great is your faithfulness.” Lamentations 3:23
ever has his eyes totally closed when I am nearby. He is constantly on alert for any unusual
movement I make. I think Carl wants to
make sure he doesn’t miss out on anything fun or entertaining.
No matter if
he is in his bed, on the couch, or lying down on the screen porch, his eyes are
looking in all directions for any detection of movement. When I need to go
outside without Carl, I usually have to tippy toe past him and open the door
without making a sound.
If I am
caught, Carl will slither through the door beside me, and wander around outside
until he is placed back inside. This can be aggravating when I am in a hurry or
have a task that doesn’t call for the help of a Frenchie with no tail.
the folly of exploring outside the boundaries of the house. He is unaware of
the dangers of the busy street that borders our yard. He typically won’t go out into the street
unless he spots a dog being walked. Then all bets are off.
Carl, we all have a tendency to folly out beyond the boundaries set before us
by God. Proverbs 15:21 states it simply but profoundly.
“Folly is a
joy to him who lacks sense, but a man of understanding walks straight ahead.”
How often do
we slither outside and wander where we are not intended to travel? This can
take place in our minds or in our actions. No matter, there are times when we
lack sense and need to return to the straight path.
As for Carl,
he will continue to dart outside every chance he can. And you will find me
taking a hold of his collar and dragging him back to the safety of the screened